AMERICAN KIDS: Move out when they’re 18 with the full support of their parents.
ITALIAN KIDS: Move out when they’re 28, having saved enough money for a house,and are two weeks away from getting married….. unless there’s room in the basement for the newlyweds.
AMERICAN KIDS: When their Mom visits them, she brings a Bundt cake, you have coffee, and chat. ITALIAN KIDS: When their Mom visits them, she brings 3 days worth of food, begins to tidy up, dust, do the laundry, and rearrange the furniture.
AMERICAN KIDS: Their dads always call before they come over to visit them, and it’s usually only on special occasions.
ITALIAN KIDS: Are not at all fazed when their dads show up, unannounced, on a Saturday morning at 8:00 am, and start pruning the fruit trees. If there are no fruit trees, he’ll plant some.
AMERICAN KIDS: Always pay retail, and look in the Yellow Pages when they need to have something done.
ITALIAN KIDS: Call their dad or uncle, and ask for another dad’s, or uncle’s, phone number to get it done.
AMERICAN KIDS: Will come over for cake and coffee, and get only cake and coffee. No more. ITALIAN KIDS: Will come over for cake and coffee, and get antipasto, a pasta dish, a choice of two meats, salad, bread, a cannoli, fruit, and espresso.
AMERICAN KIDS: Will greet you with “Hello” or “Hi.” ITALIAN KIDS: Will give you a big hug, a kiss on your cheek, and a pat on your back.
AMERICAN KIDS: Have never seen you cry. ITALIAN KIDS: Cry with you.
AMERICAN KIDS: Eat peanut butter and jelly sandwiches on soft mushy white bread. ITALIAN KIDS: Eat Genoa Salami and Provolone sandwiches on crusty Italian bread (for breakfast).
Ya Gotta Love Us!!!
Don’t miss out…
Go visit an Italian today!!
Once we meet…
You’ll never be a stranger…
You’re part of our family now, and…
Forever!!
God Bless!
“A family is a place where principles are hammered and honed
Okay, let me set the scene for you. It’s Easter Sunday. My son and I taught Kids Church at our church at 9 am. We’re very Pentecostal! My husband is Catholic. So on Christmas Eve and on Easter Sunday, my son and I become “C and E” Catholics, so we can go as a family to Dad’s church with him.
Perhaps not ideal. Or, even what I pray for. But it is what it is!!
Anyway, I know Easter Service is going to be super packed at the Catholic church, so I want to get there as soon as we can, when my son and I get home from our church. We wore regular church clothes, instead of our Kids Church t-shirts and jeans, as we usually would, just to save time. But, I let my son wear his black and white Converse sneakers with his black pants, because, well, who cares, right???
Anyway, my husband insists our kid come inside, and change his sneakers, and so, we got to his church right before 11 am, instead of at 10:30 am, like I planned. There might have been a shot at getting a seat at 10:30 am, but “No Way” at 11 am!! It’s a huge, beautiful church, just rebuilt after the hurricane!
But, folks, this is Easter Sunday…Resurrection Day! Amen! And Hallelujah!!
We walk in through crowds, upon crowds, of people. I see a friend and she says, “No seats!!!” Since the usher just gave her husband the last seat, because he had just had surgery, and wouldn’t be able to stand for an hour and a half.
I can’t either!
So we head back outside…
Walk around to the other door…
Into the overflow room!!
The overflow room has overflowed!
People have overflowed out into the vestibule…
And onto the outside walkway…
And well into the parking lot!
So we decided to stay in the vestibule, ’cause I saw a little 2″ window sill, that I mistakenly thought I could rest on. But, at second glance, I saw that it was way too small for my behind!
What was I thinking?
Also, I had worn my really cute, little, tiny heels, since I figured,
“Hey, I’m not working and standing all day, right?
I’ll be sitting, won’t I?”
Ouch!
My mind is racing.
How to find a way to sit down…
ANYWHERE!!!
I ask the usher if there are any folding chairs? “No!” My husband goes to the Annex Building to look. “No!”
Then I spy a door to a kitchen, and just inside, is a little mahogany step stool!
I sneak in when the usher isn’t looking, and grab it!
Nice Christian move, huh?!?!?
I sat rather uncomfortably on this stool for the entire service, I couldn’t even see the priest. I peeked around the blob of people in front of me. He was miles away, but I saw that he had white hair. We had settled right next to the bathrooms, where people were coming and going, and flushing! Not really conducive to worshiping!
But, with their great sound system, and I could hear every word the priest said!
All the hassle was worth it, because of the sermon I heard preached to the Catholics!!
After awhile everyone calmed down to stand in their chosen spots, and the ceremony began. They even sang “Celebrate, Jesus, Celebrate”
Which I loved! Real hand clapping music! Amen!
The priest was talking about what Jesus did for us on the Cross…
“It’s Finished, Nothing Else Needs To Be Done!”
Amen!
He helps them recite their profession of faith and belief in Jesus Christ, etc.
While I’m not Catholic, my Mom’s older sister was a nun, I was raised in a Catholic town in NJ, and basically there were a hand-full of us non-Catholic Italians in our town-most of whom were related to us!!
So, if you have any questions, please go to Rebecca Hamilton’s blog called Public Catholic, at:
We had a great, calm, fun-filled Thanksgiving Dinner at our friend’s house this year…
But I’m remembering other Holidays, Vacations, and Special Occasions of ours in the past…
So, in anticipation of the upcoming Merry Christmas get-togethers…
I feel the need to vent!!
I like “NICE” on Holidays, Vacations, and Special Occasions!!!
I want EVERYONE to be NICE…
Talk NICE!
And to be on their BEST Behavior!!
Why get together if everyone is going to “air their dirty laundry…”
Be grouchy…
Judgmental…
Snotty…
Impatient…
Intolerant of others’ routines…
Negative…
Condescending…
Arrive late…
Or leave early…
Mope around…
Be moody…
Create tension…
For goodness sake…
Don’t make me thank God every day..
That I don’t have to live with you…
And, if I do live with you…
Don’t make me thank God every day…
That I have you to go to places with…
But, that I can go by myself, if I want to…
Please everyone…
Make me want to spend time with you…
Make me happy to see you!
To BE with you!
“Put yourself under…”
As one of my family members used to say…
When I was a young adult…
Meaning…
THINK OF OTHERS FIRST!!!!
Above yourself!!
Before yourself!
This equals:
JOY!
Jesus…Others…You!
In that order!
A Holiday, Vacation, or Special Occasion…
Is supposed to be NICE…
FUN!!!
HAPPY!
LOVING!
LIVELY!
FESTIVE!
It’s not a time for “BLAH” as usual…
Mundane…
Boring…
Or, your opportunity to bark at people…
And, not the time for ranting about your least favorite things…
But, it IS about being with your most favorite people!!
In this special way…
At this special time…
To enjoy this special moment…
Together!
Laughing, loving, and sharing…
Talk about controversial issues over coffee on a normal day…
Rehash heated family issues with a trusted counselor…
Not at the dinner table!
It makes me nauseous…
Or makes me have “agita” as we Italians say! Ha!
Interesting fact from “The Word Detective”…
thehttp://www.word-detective.com/121800.html
“‘Agita’ is not a standard Italian word, and linguists are not certain where came it from. One possible source is the Italian word “agitare’ (‘to agitate’ or “‘to trouble”‘, which in turn came from the Latin ‘agitare,’ which meant ‘to stir up.’ To be ‘agitato’ in Italy is to be very excited, and a musical score marked ‘agitato’ is intended to be played at a frenzied pace. But it’s also possible that the source is ‘acido’ (pronounced ‘AH-chee-do’), Italian for ‘stomach acid,’ which then possibly became ‘agita’ (‘AH-jih-ta’) over time. Whatever the source, ‘agita’ seems to have arrived in New York with Italian immigrants around the turn of the century, and has been in constant use, especially in places like New York City, ever since.”
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